How to Get Women to Want You

This is a pretty big topic that a lot of men have whether young or old. The fact of the matter is that all women respond the same way, you just dealing with a different personality in each of them. When I was younger I didn't really have much of a problem getting women. I really didn't have to do to much talking in order to get a woman to like me either. I was always a calm and laid back type of person. I have heard women give me compliments about my eyes and my skin complexion, but that doesn't make the person. It's really about how you carry your self around women, when I was younger I was more into talking to women and playing around. But, as I got older and mature I started acting completely different around women.

One thing that about me that I didn't like when I was younger was my height, I hated that I was shorter then the average person in my age group. But, as I got into my high school days I begin to sprout until I was at an average mans height, which I am completely happy with. As I got older I didn't have less confidence about myself because of my height, I was completely comfortable with my height which gave me confidence through the roof. I then noticed that women do not want to interact with a man that seems like they are not confident with there self. They want a man to stand up tall and have a piecing look in the eyes that demand respect. When you look at them, make sure you stare them in their eyes when you talk to them and when they talk to you.

They see a person that can't look them into their eyes as untrustworthy, and that they are sneaky or are not paying any attention. Women watch everything you do, how you dress, how you walk, how you talk to people and even the tone of your voice when you talk to them and others. Another thing women notice about your confidence, is how your tone is when you talk. If you have a nervous quiet tone they pick that up about you, which will not be a good thing. A woman wants to also feel safe around you, they want to go somewhere and know that you are not going to allow anyone to disrespect you, or her as well for that matter. I'm not saying go everywhere looking for a fight, but I am saying don't allow anyone to be disrespectful to you or her.

When you are first meeting a woman through a friend, or if you are just out with friends and everyone starts associating, one mistake men do is be to forward. We be all over the woman, not taking our eyes off her and hounding her like a dog. Women do not like when men act this way, it makes you look as if you never have seen a woman before, which is a turn off for most women. One thing that I do if I first me a women, is that I will speak and if I am interested in her I don't really let her know that I am. If I am meeting her through mutual friends that we are out with, I engage in whatever conversation that is going on. I don't at all stare at her as much unless she is inputting in the conversation, I have noticed that the more cool, calm and laid back you are they find there self noticing you more and more.

I always talk with confidence and I speak my mind about whatever the subject matter is at the time. It doesn't matter whether you agree or disagree with what they are stating. A woman doesn't want a man that seems like they are a push over and don't have their own mindset. They like a man to be independent and to at least know what you are talking about. I observe things from every angle, I can adapt to whatever conversation or personality that is around me. When I went to the military a while back they also enhanced my skills to adapt as well which makes it even easier for me to talk to all different kinds of races and cultures. So, that's another benefit that I have gained from my time in the military, which is really a plus, being that you can take that skill to the work place as well.

Another thing I would like to say, is that it is ok to be a little rude sometimes. I know what you are thinking, you are suppose to be the perfect gentleman right. I'm not saying be rude to the point that it's obnoxious, just a from time to time a little friendly rude. Trust me you will catch her off guard and it will spark up a little laugh, you don't want to be boring and predictable, you want to put in a little spice as well from time to time. Make sure that you are easy to talk to, meaning make sure you listen and don't cut her off, when she finishes talking then give her some friendly advice or if no advice is needed just show some sort of engagement in the conversation. If it's something you are not interested in, you don't have to put a lot of input in it, but what you do put in she will be happy to run with it, bringing in more conversations for you to branch into.

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